Coaching, Consulting, Training, and Speaking
RE:calibrate provides coaching, consulting, and training for leaders and teams in order to develop healthy transformational and sustainable churches and organizations.
Coaching
Ever heard the saying, "Even Tiger Woods has a golf coach"? It holds true in church leadership too. Consider this: Pastor stress is enormous. The demands and expectations of pastors today can be debilitating. Barna reported in 2021 that 38% of pastors said that they had considered quitting the ministry. It’s easy to become overwhelmed, depressed, stuck, or burned out. And yet, being a pastor is an incredible calling and is much needed in our churches. As your dedicated ministry coach, I bring over 40 years of hands-on experience to walk with you toward being more emotionally and spiritually healthy and more deeply connected to Jesus, while achieving your personal and professional goals.
We will navigate the complexities of ministry and the balance of work and family life more sustainably, and tackle relational conflicts, theological conundrums, organizational challenges, and capitalize on the unique opportunities within your context. Think of it like having your own personal seminary professor, spiritual director, or seasoned trainer right at your fingertips.
I'll be your sounding board, asking discerning practical and spiritual questions and brainstorming insights and solutions that may not have crossed your mind. From strategic vision and innovative solutions to conflict resolution and sermon development, I've got you covered. Together, we'll work on the goals you set and prioritize your mental, emotional, familial, and social well-being amidst the complex dynamics of ministry.
Trust-building will be at the core of our collaboration, fostering a relationship of encouragement and accountability. Let's connect on Google Meet – whether it's weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, or as needed – to encourage you to remain faithful and continue to flourish in Kingdom ministry for years to come.
Let me partner with what God is already doing in your life. “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecc 4:12).
Please complete THIS FORM to help me get to know you better and if I am the right person to coach you.
Pastor Steve Baker (Lincolnway Christian Church) - “I am incredibly grateful for the transformative experience I've had under the guidance of Rondel. His expertise and dedication have been invaluable to me in refining my skills and enhancing my effectiveness as a speaker. He has a unique way of asking the right questions at the right time to help me to grow into all that I can become.
Before working with Rondel, I sensed something was missing (read more)
Consulting
Church Health: Diagnosing and Implementing a Plan to Address your Ministry’s Health (Children’s, Youth or Whole church) - Conducted with Elders, Staff, and key leaders, we’ll examine the current health of your ministry in key lead indicators to develop a strategy to address and improve the overall health of the ministry
Staff Conflict Intervention (working with elders, senior leaders, youth minister and hoping to salvage ministry credibility and impact)
Speaking/Training Engagements
I appreciate your interest in having me participate in your event. I prayerfully evaluate each request in regard to strategic Kingdom impact and with consideration with my family and teaching load.
Everything is customized to your needs.
To make a request, complete the form below with the following information, and I will contact you as soon as possible.
Your name, email, phone number
In the Comments on Request, include the following:
Organization name, address (street, city, state, zip)
Event title, focus, and a clear objective to be accomplished when the event is complete
What is needed from me: teaching, preaching, coaching, training, or consulting (one or all)
Possible topics/subjects of teaching (see below or provide your own)
Event date and times, and length of each event segment
Audience demographics
Travel issues (distance, time change, road construction, favored airport, etc. )
Again, thank you for your interest.
Rondel
Honorarium and travel fees are negotiable.
IN PREPARATION
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What I will need:
Video Projector Access (HDMI cable. I have a Mac lightning adapter and 6′ HDMI cable) I would like to control my laptop with my wireless remote. If the distance prohibits this, I need someone to work the presentation software to advance the slide deck presentations
Wireless Internet Access
Sound Access for Video Clips –HDMI access OR 1/8″ sound jack to plug into my computer
Whiteboard/chalkboard – large enough for all participants to see
New Markers and Eraser
Round tables for discussion groups (if possible)
I will send a PDF file that should be copied for all participants OR a seminar webpage to be given to participants to link to.
Below are the teachings and presentations that are currently available. Specific topics/teachings can be developed for your particular situation and need. If you want me to preach, provide that information when you contact me.
Sunday Preaching (A Sunday sermon or series could be a day, weekend, or weekly seminar)
In Essense: A 12-week study of I Peter exploring the Core Essentials of Discipleship
King Jesus-Holy Week: A 2-week study of The Triumphant Entry and Resurrection Sunday
Re:SET: A 4-week study of setting priorities and living out your mission
Rooted: A 15-week study of Colossians examining Paul’s Message to a Church about Being Grounded in their Faith
The Benefit of the Doubt: A 2-week study talking about doubt, questions, and living with questions. it discusses faith construction, deconstruction, and reconstruction. This can be expanded to many more weeks.
Together: A 6-week study of the Church and what it means to be a community
Perspectives of Christmas: A 5-week study of Christmas through the eyes of the major characters in the Christmas Story
Wholes: Finding contentment & wholeness in a broken & holey world - A 6-week study of developing a healthy self-portrait of ourselves so that can better carry out the second greatest commandment of Jesus: to love others as ourselves. [LINK to page]
OR… any single sermon or series that you would like me to custom develop for your church.
Adult Seminars (A seminar could be a Sunday AM sermon or series)
Discipleship: Making Apprentices of Jesus - A Saturday seminar that practically focuses on what maturity in Christ looks like and how to develop a discipleship initiative to mentor adults to become fully engaged apprentices of Jesus.
Impacting our Community - A 4-session Saturday seminar in making practical the Great Commission. Session titles are: 1. Getting Our Story Straight (The Why). 2. Living in Babylon… We're NOT in Jerusalem anymore Toto (The Who). 3. Walking through Thresholds (The How). 4. Being Wise as Serpents and Innocent as Doves (The Now What) [LINK to page]
Leading Out of Brokenness - A Saturday seminar on how to embrace our brokenness and weaknesses for greater leadership impact. [LINK to page]
Navigating the Relational Dynamics in Ministry - An interactive Saturday seminar to equip participants to better understand and interact with other staff, volunteers, and one another in more healthy ways.
The Art of Creative Teaching: Fostering Transformational Learning - An interactive Saturday seminar to coach participants to better understand how learning happens and develop the skills to craft and deliver creative learning experiences in their teaching. Applicable for all ages of learners. [LINK to page]
OR… any Saturday seminar that you would like me to custom develop for your church
ReCalibrate: Student Ministry Institute (8 weeks or stand-alone)
Instead of taking some of your team to a large conference this year, why not bring a personalized, interactive conference to your whole team? Choose how you will experience the eight sessions (usually over eight weeks) to equip your team to work toward ministry health and together become the dynamic leaders your church and community need. Post-institute coaching is available. The eight sessions are listed below. Customization is encouraged.
Instilling Healthy Team Dynamics – We will examine the key elements necessary for a healthy team to function most effectively.
Examining Adolescent Culture – How can we incarnate ourselves and relate with these adolescent natives, understanding and speaking in their native worldview and language? We will explore the intricacies of American culture.
Understanding Adolescent Development – Adults working with youth must understand the dynamics of pre-, early, middle, and late adolescence in order to most effectively disciple them toward maturity
Fostering Relational Youth Ministry – This is a practical session for building deep and lasting (healthy) relationships with students so as to foster their growth in Christ.
Developing Life-Changing Student Learning - This session will focus on the details necessary to create healthy environments where discovery learning and adolescent spiritual growth can naturally occur.
Aiding Emotional Hygiene & First-Aid through Basic Counseling/Mentoring – Everyone can learn basic skills to help students deal with emotional hurts and better navigate the rough waters of adolescence.
Transforming Letter-Jacket Faith – Your adult leaders and parents will explore how to better prepare your HS graduates to have their own confident faith as lifelong apprentices of Jesus instead of taking off their “letter-jacket brittle faith” on the first day of college. We will seek to cultivate a growing ministry ecology.
Other Leadership and Youth Ministry Staff Training Sessions/Events
Moving Students from Sand to Rock in a Postmodern Culture – A Philosophical and practical exploration of developing ethical decision factors in the lives of teens. Just how do they decide what they should do? It’s not because you told them God said to!
Seeing the Big Picture with Students who are Atheist to Authentic Disciples – Analyzing the needs, necessary actions, and things to avoid in developing a holistic youth ministry.
Authentic Leadership Community: Embracing Conflict and Different Perspectives – Just because you get along, doesn’t mean AT ALL that you have community.
Strategies and Paradigms for Effective & Efficient Time Management
Big Picture YM Program Planning – Advanced planning, backdating, specific event planning so you will be prepared, the secretary on board, the janitor relieved, the parents informed, and the students engaged to grow… instead of all of those being incredibly frustrated with you!!!!!!
Theology and Youth Ministry – Foundational. What you believe WILL influence everything you do.
Empower Parents as the Real Youth Ministers – Ensuring that the youth ministry exists for the parents and not the other way around.
Herding Cats: Dealing with Tough Kids (Positive and disciple-making discipline)
Custom designed for your staff
Youth Teaching/Events
Living Under the Umbrella of Grace – Dealing with faith-shaking questions
Relating to “THEM” – Connecting with postmodern people
Biblical Dating and Sexuality – a practical and wise presentation on how to handle all those hormones!
Purity Ball Presentation – Daddy/daughter get-togethers
Make My Life a Prayer to You (Living a 24/7 prayer life)
Packing Up for the University – What do I need to prepare for before I go to college (being spiritually ready)
Understanding Why My Parents Are So Mean! – This is a very interactive session to help your students better understand the WHYs of their Parent’s WHATs and HOWs.
Framework: Moving from Renting Faith to Owning it - a three-session interaction ideal for a weekend retreat
Re:SET… a four-week HS series on priorities and living out your mission Webpage
Custom-designed for your students
Parenting Seminars
Raising Kids with Durable Faith – Since we have 18 years to get our children ready for life, we can’t wait until the month before they head off to college to teach them how to do laundry, handle finances, prepare for retirement, think wisely, and how to live life as an adult disciple and lifelong apprentice of Jesus; we better have an 18-year plan. It may take that long for some!
Setting Boundaries; Building Relationships – Striking the balance (no, the tension!) of Boundaries and Trust
Loving the Hard to Love – Dealing with the Prodigal and the pre-Prodigal
Caring to Communicate about Things That Matter
Custom-designed for your parents
Corporation/Business Leadership Development
What Matters Most – This seminar is a great way to take a step back to look at the big picture and determine what matters most for your organization. Explore barriers to functionality and clarity in vision and implementations.
Conflict Metamorphosis – This seminar leads participants to explore the value and necessity for healthy communities that have a life and creativity-producing culture and guides them to evaluate and develop a plan to have such a culture where the best can happen.
Developing Sound and Wise Responses to Systemically Challenging Problems. We can do more damage when we apply the wrong solution strategy to a complex problem.
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