25 Questions to Deeper Intimacy
Valentine's Day is coming. Love is in the air. Here are some great questions I've compiled to foster deeper intimacy and stronger relationships. It's easy to get in ruts or take one another for granted which can often prevent us from more deeply exploring the uniquenesses of our partners. After all, as for me and Jennifer with 38 years of marriage under our belts, what else is there to know about each other? Give them a try. You might be surprised by what you may learn. Turn on some soft music. Take turns. Don’t rush. Happy exploration. Enjoy.
What is one of your favorite memories of us?
What do you think is our greatest strength as a couple?
What are two things that you appreciate about me?
What is your number one current stress or fear about the future and why?
What helps you feel confident and secure in our relationship?
What is one thing you would like to change about our relationship?
What is something you would like to experience together that we haven't yet?
What do you wish I would appreciate more about you?
What is something that you would like to learn or try together in the future?
What is something I do that makes you feel loved and appreciated?
What is something that you wish I knew about you?
What is one thing you would like to tell me about yourself that you haven't yet?
What do you think is our biggest struggle as a couple?
How do you see our lives together five years from now?
What is one of the best things I have ever said or done for you?
What do you need most from me when you’re upset?
What were some things we used to do before we were married that you miss now?
What are we doing when you feel closest to me?
What are you most excited about in our relationship during this next season of life?
What would you describe as a perfect day in our relationship?
What do you see as the biggest strength in our relationship?
What do you feel has been the key to our successful marriage?
What is something you would like to improve about our communication as a couple?
What is something you would like to improve about our communication as a couple?
How do you see our relationship continuing to grow and evolve in the future?
