Longing for old fences
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There was a time, in the not-too-distant past, when all the people lived in communities surrounded by a fence and several gates. Each community maintained their fence and their gates. Everything flowed through the gates. He who controlled the gates held the power & influence. In these communities, the gatekeepers (those who controlled the gates) enjoyed the people’s favor, and they became … more

Learning
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Learning is the same as changing.  We change when we learn (knowledge, beliefs, values, actions) All change brings loss.  Some times it is painful or humiliating, other times not so much. All loss brings some sort of grief.  Especially when a change affects the framework of all that we hold true. We mostly seek to avoid loss for mental, emotional, … more